stdClass Object
(
[id] => 1280135
[title] => Damir Kedžo otvoreno o graničnom poremećaju osobnosti i odlasku na psihijatriju: ‘Htio sam ljudima reći da se bojim‘
[alias] => damir-kedzo-otvoreno-o-granicnom-poremecaju-osobnosti-i-odlasku-na-psihijatriju-htio-sam-ljudima-reci-da-se-bojim
[catid] => 262
[published] => 1
[introtext] =>
[fulltext] =>
Iza pjevača Damira Kedže teška je bitka s graničnim poremećajem osobnosti. Za IN magazin hrabro je priznao kako se nije mogao nositi s anksioznošću i opsesivnim mislima, pa je pomoć potražio na psihijatrijskom odjelu riječke bolnice, prenosi Jutarnji list .
- Htio sam ljudima reći, ljudi ful se bojim, ful sam nervozan, međutim to sam liječio na različite načine, ili bih popio čašu, dvije vina pa išao pjevati, a mislim da to nije način, jer kad kreneš s čašom, dvije kroz deset godina postane boca, dvije, tri, četiri, a ja nisam tip osobe koja želi živjeti destruktivan život, priznao je Kedžo.
---
---
‘U početku su mi od velike pomoći bili lijekovi koje mi je prepisala psihijatrica, ali oni su samo gips za slomljenu nogu. Nakon nekog vremena ta noga mora uz vježbu odbaciti štaku, pa sam i ja uz lijekove krenuo na terapiju.
Ali u toj akutnoj fazi, bez lijekova ne bih mogao niti spavati, moje misli su bile kao Ferrari bez kočnica koji juri prema zidu. Psihoterapija je bio pravi i veliki korak naprijed u razumijevanju svega što se događa. Trideset pet godina sam živio u jednom programu i načinu razmišljanja i okrenuti to u nešto novo, drugačije ali bolje za mene, nije niti malo lagan posao.
Prolazeći kroz sve o čemu govorim, ne bojim se osude. Želim o svemu javno govoriti, jer ako se netko u ovome prepozna a trenutno svoj nemir pokušava umiriti alkoholom ili drogom, možda čuje moje iskustvo, možda potraži stručnu pomoć i počne živjeti kvalitetniji život. Ja ću biti zadovoljan. A što će netko zlonamjeran misliti, nije mi važno. Ti su dani, nadam se,zauvijek iza mene.
---
---
Zanimljivo je, da su se meni uvijek sviđale neke javne osobe koje pate od ovog poremećaja. U traženju rješenja za sebe otkrio sam da je od graničnog poremećaja ličnosti patila i Amy Winehouse, Kurt Cobain,Robbie Williams , princeza Diana , Marilyn Monroe . To mi je pomoglo, jer sam si mislio ako R. Williams može s tim izaći na kraj, valjda ću i ja uspjeti. Zato mislim da o tome treba govoriti, a ako će netko reći da sam lud, neka im bude. Ja na to putovanje, gledam samo pozitivno.
Važna mi je podrška moje obitelji, roditelja i sestre. Majka je od osobe koja nije razumjela niti prihvaćala ovaj problem, sada moj najveći saveznik. Još u samim počecima mnogima oko mene je bilo jasno da se nešto događa, ali nitko nije znao kako mi pomoći, a najmanje ja sam. Bila je to transformacija za mene ali i cijelu obitelj.
Ne bojim se zato budućnosti, jer napokon imam alate kako ovladati preplavljujućim mislima i osjećajima. Svi imamo bolje i lošije dane, a ja se sada trudim da oni loši budu kratki i rješivi, da budu iznimka a ne pravilo.
Počinjem živjeti svoje najbolje dane, jer nakon dvadeset godina mržnje prema sebi došao sam do mjesta da se učim voljeti sebe, a mislio sam do to mjesto ne postoji.‘, ispričao je Kedžo za Gloriu , a cijeli razgovor možete pogledati u videu.
---
VIDEO
---
[video] =>
[gallery] =>
[extra_fields] => [{"id":"1","value":""},{"id":"2","value":"TE\u0160KA BITKA"},{"id":"10","value":""},{"id":"97","value":""},{"id":"65","value":""},{"id":"63","value":"2"},{"id":"80","value":""},{"id":"81","value":""},{"id":"82","value":""},{"id":"83","value":""},{"id":"84","value":""},{"id":"85","value":""},{"id":"86","value":""},{"id":"88","value":""},{"id":"95","value":"0"},{"id":"105","value":""},{"id":"106","value":""},{"id":"107","value":""},{"id":"112","value":"2900"},{"id":"78","value":"2"},{"id":"87","value":"2"},{"id":"61","value":"1"},{"id":"62","value":"1"},{"id":"64","value":"1"},{"id":"67","value":"1"},{"id":"68","value":"2"},{"id":"69","value":"1"},{"id":"70","value":"1"},{"id":"71","value":"1"},{"id":"73","value":"1"},{"id":"74","value":"1"},{"id":"77","value":"1"},{"id":"79","value":"1"},{"id":"91","value":"1"},{"id":"92","value":"1"},{"id":"93","value":"1"},{"id":"94","value":"1"},{"id":"96","value":"1"},{"id":"98","value":"1"}]
[extra_fields_search] => TEŠKA BITKA 2 0 2900 2 2 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1 1
[created] => 2023-04-10 10:41:00
[created_by] => 3271
[created_by_alias] => SCENA SD
[checked_out] => 0
[checked_out_time] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00
[modified] => 2023-04-10 10:52:18
[modified_by] => 3271
[publish_up] => 2023-04-10 10:45:00
[publish_down] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00
[trash] => 0
[access] => 1
[ordering] => 0
[featured] => 1
[featured_ordering] => 0
[image_caption] =>
[image_credits] =>
[video_caption] =>
[video_credits] =>
[hits] => 520
[params] => Joomla\Registry\Registry Object
(
[data:protected] => stdClass Object
(
[enable_css] => 1
[jQueryHandling] => 1.8remote
[backendJQueryHandling] => remote
[userName] => 1
[userImage] => 1
[userDescription] => 1
[userURL] => 1
[userEmail] => 0
[userFeedLink] => 1
[userFeedIcon] => 1
[userItemCount] => 30
[userItemTitle] => 1
[userItemTitleLinked] => 1
[userItemDateCreated] => 1
[userItemImage] => 1
[userItemIntroText] => 1
[userItemCategory] => 1
[userItemTags] => 1
[userItemCommentsAnchor] => 1
[userItemReadMore] => 1
[userItemOCMPlugins] => 1
[authorsListLimit] => 61
[tagItemCount] => 61
[tagItemTitle] => 1
[tagItemTitleLinked] => 1
[tagItemDateCreated] => 1
[tagItemImage] => 1
[tagItemIntroText] => 1
[tagItemCategory] => 1
[tagItemReadMore] => 1
[tagItemExtraFields] => 1
[tagOrdering] =>
[tagFeedLink] => 1
[tagFeedIcon] => 1
[genericItemCount] => 61
[genericItemTitle] => 1
[genericItemTitleLinked] => 1
[genericItemDateCreated] => 1
[genericItemImage] => 1
[genericItemIntroText] => 1
[genericItemCategory] => 1
[genericItemReadMore] => 1
[genericItemExtraFields] => 1
[genericFeedLink] => 1
[genericFeedIcon] => 1
[instantArticlesLimit] => 100
[instantArticlesExtraField] => 87
[instantArticlesExtraFieldON] => 2
[instantArticlesCategoriesChildren] => 0
[instantArticlesTitle] =>
[instantArticlesDescription] =>
[mainTagCategories] => Array
(
[0] => 119
[1] => 396
[2] => 383
[3] => 424
[4] => 250
[5] => 251
[6] => 452
[7] => 252
[8] => 477
[9] => 253
[10] => 254
[11] => 255
[12] => 483
[13] => 256
[14] => 300
[15] => 257
[16] => 258
[17] => 260
)
[relatedItemsCategoriesChildren] => 1
[mobileJsonCustomHomepage] => 0
[mobileJsonQuoteModule] => 0
[mobileJsonWeatherModule] => 0
[mobileJsonLimit] =>
[mobileJsonObituary] => 0
[mobileApi2Enabled] => 1
[mobileApi2UserAgent] => OCM Mobile Articles
[mobileApi2ImagePrefix] => h
[mobileApi2ImageSuffix] => 1280
[mobileApi2DefaultAuthorImage] => /images/jpgs/user_face.jpg
[mobileApi2TagLimit] => 50
[mobileApi2TagOrdering] => publishUp
[mobileApi2TagCategories] => stdClass Object
(
[mobileApi2TagCategories0] => stdClass Object
(
[mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 101
[mobileApi2TagExcludeCategories] => Array
(
[0] => 318
[1] => 323
[2] => 301
[3] => 406
[4] => 417
)
)
[mobileApi2TagCategories1] => stdClass Object
(
[mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 328
)
[mobileApi2TagCategories2] => stdClass Object
(
[mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 329
)
[mobileApi2TagCategories3] => stdClass Object
(
[mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 327
)
[mobileApi2TagCategories4] => stdClass Object
(
[mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 478
)
[mobileApi2TagCategories5] => stdClass Object
(
[mobileApi2TagCategoriesMenuitem] => 494
)
)
[mobileApi2TagsSearchLimit] => 200
[mainFeedCategories] => Array
(
[0] => 240
)
[feedLimit] => 50
[mostPopularFeedLimit] => 20
[feedItemImage] => 0
[feedImgSize] => S
[feedItemIntroText] => 0
[feedTextWordLimit] =>
[feedItemFullText] => 1
[feedTextCharacterLimit] => 300
[feedItemSubtitle] => 1
[feedItemAuthor] => 0
[feedTtl] => 60
[feedDescription] => RSS feeds for Slobodna Dalmacija
[feedItemTags] => 0
[feedItemVideo] => 0
[feedItemGallery] => 0
[feedItemAttachments] => 0
[feedBogusEmail] =>
[feedTopModules] => Array
(
[0] => 105
)
[feedTopFbExcludeCategories] => Array
(
[0] => 243
[1] => 353
[2] => 333
)
[introTextCleanup] => 0
[introTextCleanupExcludeTags] =>
[introTextCleanupTagAttr] =>
[fullTextCleanup] => 0
[fullTextCleanupExcludeTags] =>
[fullTextCleanupTagAttr] =>
[xssFiltering] => 0
[linkPopupWidth] => 900
[linkPopupHeight] => 600
[imagesQuality] => 100
[itemImageXS] => 100
[itemImageS] => 200
[itemImageM] => 400
[itemImageL] => 600
[itemImageXL] => 900
[itemImageGeneric] => 300
[catImageWidth] => 100
[catImageDefault] => 1
[userImageWidth] => 100
[userImageDefault] => 1
[commenterImgWidth] => 48
[onlineImageEditor] => sumopaint
[imageTimestamp] => 0
[imageMemoryLimit] =>
[socialButtonCode] =>
[twitterUsername] =>
[facebookMetatags] => 1
[facebookImage] => Medium
[comments] => 1
[commentsOrdering] => DESC
[commentsLimit] => 10
[commentsFormPosition] => below
[commentsPublishing] => 0
[commentsReporting] => 2
[commentsReportRecipient] =>
[inlineCommentsModeration] => 0
[gravatar] => 1
[antispam] => 0
[recaptchaForRegistered] => 1
[akismetForRegistered] => 1
[commentsFormNotes] => 1
[commentsFormNotesText] =>
[frontendEditing] => 1
[showImageTab] => 1
[showImageGalleryTab] => 1
[showVideoTab] => 1
[showExtraFieldsTab] => 1
[showAttachmentsTab] => 1
[showOCMPlugins] => 1
[sideBarDisplayFrontend] => 0
[staticURL] => https://static.slobodnadalmacija.hr
[siteURL] => https://slobodnadalmacija.hr
[sseHost] => sse.slobodnadalmacija.hr
[lockingArticlesCategories] => Array
(
[0] => 119
[1] => 424
[2] => 250
[3] => 251
[4] => 452
[5] => 252
[6] => 477
[7] => 253
[8] => 254
[9] => 255
[10] => 483
[11] => 256
[12] => 257
[13] => 258
[14] => 260
)
[lockingArticlesUnit] => YEAR
[lockingArticlesQuantity] => 1
[photoGalleryExtraField] => 63
[photoGalleryExtraFieldON] => 2
[videoGalleryExtraField] => 67
[videoGalleryExtraFieldON] => 2
[tickerModules] => Array
(
[0] => 408
[1] => 409
)
[gaEmail] =>
[mergeEditors] => 1
[sideBarDisplay] => 1
[attachmentsFolder] =>
[hideImportButton] => 0
[googleSearch] => 0
[googleSearchContainer] => ocmGoogleSearchContainer
[OCMUserProfile] => 1
[OCMUserGroup] => 4
[redirect] => 101
[adminSearch] => simple
[cookieDomain] =>
[gatherStatistics] => 1
[article_preview_ocm_category_id] =>
[taggingSystem] => 1
[lockTags] => 0
[showTagFilter] => 0
[ocmTagNorm] => 0
[ocmTagNormCase] => lower
[ocmTagNormAdditionalReplacements] =>
[recaptcha_public_key] => marko_margeta
[recaptcha_private_key] => zoey2013
[recaptcha_theme] => clean
[recaptchaV2] => 1
[recaptchaOnRegistration] => 0
[akismetApiKey] =>
[stopForumSpam] => 0
[stopForumSpamApiKey] =>
[showItemsCounterAdmin] => 1
[showChildCatItems] => 1
[disableCompactOrdering] => 0
[metaDescLimit] => 150
[enforceSEFReplacements] => 0
[SEFReplacements] => À|A, Á|A, Â|A, Ã|A, Ä|A, Å|A, à|a, á|a, â|a, ã|a, ä|a, å|a, Ā|A, ā|a, Ă|A, ă|a, Ą|A, ą|a, Ç|C, ç|c, Ć|C, ć|c, Ĉ|C, ĉ|c, Ċ|C, ċ|c, Č|C, č|c, Ð|D, ð|d, Ď|D, ď|d, Đ|D, đ|d, È|E, É|E, Ê|E, Ë|E, è|e, é|e, ê|e, ë|e, Ē|E, ē|e, Ĕ|E, ĕ|e, Ė|E, ė|e, Ę|E, ę|e, Ě|E, ě|e, Ĝ|G, ĝ|g, Ğ|G, ğ|g, Ġ|G, ġ|g, Ģ|G, ģ|g, Ĥ|H, ĥ|h, Ħ|H, ħ|h, Ì|I, Í|I, Î|I, Ï|I, ì|i, í|i, î|i, ï|i, Ĩ|I, ĩ|i, Ī|I, ī|i, Ĭ|I, ĭ|i, Į|I, į|i, İ|I, ı|i, Ĵ|J, ĵ|j, Ķ|K, ķ|k, ĸ|k, Ĺ|L, ĺ|l, Ļ|L, ļ|l, Ľ|L, ľ|l, Ŀ|L, ŀ|l, Ł|L, ł|l, Ñ|N, ñ|n, Ń|N, ń|n, Ņ|N, ņ|n, Ň|N, ň|n, ʼn|n, Ŋ|N, ŋ|n, Ò|O, Ó|O, Ô|O, Õ|O, Ö|O, Ø|O, ò|o, ó|o, ô|o, õ|o, ö|o, ø|o, Ō|O, ō|o, Ŏ|O, ŏ|o, Ő|O, ő|o, Ŕ|R, ŕ|r, Ŗ|R, ŗ|r, Ř|R, ř|r, Ś|S, ś|s, Ŝ|S, ŝ|s, Ş|S, ş|s, Š|S, š|s, ſ|s, Ţ|T, ţ|t, Ť|T, ť|t, Ŧ|T, ŧ|t, Ù|U, Ú|U, Û|U, Ü|U, ù|u, ú|u, û|u, ü|u, Ũ|U, ũ|u, Ū|U, ū|u, Ŭ|U, ŭ|u, Ů|U, ů|u, Ű|U, ű|u, Ų|U, ų|u, Ŵ|W, ŵ|w, Ý|Y, ý|y, ÿ|y, Ŷ|Y, ŷ|y, Ÿ|Y, Ź|Z, ź|z, Ż|Z, ż|z, Ž|Z, ž|z, α|a, β|b, γ|g, δ|d, ε|e, ζ|z, η|h, θ|th, ι|i, κ|k, λ|l, μ|m, ν|n, ξ|x, ο|o, π|p, ρ|r, σ|s, τ|t, υ|y, φ|f, χ|ch, ψ|ps, ω|w, Α|A, Β|B, Γ|G, Δ|D, Ε|E, Ζ|Z, Η|H, Θ|Th, Ι|I, Κ|K, Λ|L, Μ|M, Ξ|X, Ο|O, Π|P, Ρ|R, Σ|S, Τ|T, Υ|Y, Φ|F, Χ|Ch, Ψ|Ps, Ω|W, ά|a, έ|e, ή|h, ί|i, ό|o, ύ|y, ώ|w, Ά|A, Έ|E, Ή|H, Ί|I, Ό|O, Ύ|Y, Ώ|W, ϊ|i, ΐ|i, ϋ|y, ς|s, А|A, Ӑ|A, Ӓ|A, Ә|E, Ӛ|E, Ӕ|E, Б|B, В|V, Г|G, Ґ|G, Ѓ|G, Ғ|G, Ӷ|G, y|Y, Д|D, Е|E, Ѐ|E, Ё|YO, Ӗ|E, Ҽ|E, Ҿ|E, Є|YE, Ж|ZH, Ӂ|DZH, Җ|ZH, Ӝ|DZH, З|Z, Ҙ|Z, Ӟ|DZ, Ӡ|DZ, Ѕ|DZ, И|I, Ѝ|I, Ӥ|I, Ӣ|I, І|I, Ї|JI, Ӏ|I, Й|Y, Ҋ|Y, Ј|J, К|K, Қ|Q, Ҟ|Q, Ҡ|K, Ӄ|Q, Ҝ|K, Л|L, Ӆ|L, Љ|L, М|M, Ӎ|M, Н|N, Ӊ|N, Ң|N, Ӈ|N, Ҥ|N, Њ|N, О|O, Ӧ|O, Ө|O, Ӫ|O, Ҩ|O, П|P, Ҧ|PF, Р|P, Ҏ|P, С|S, Ҫ|S, Т|T, Ҭ|TH, Ћ|T, Ќ|K, У|U, Ў|U, Ӳ|U, Ӱ|U, Ӯ|U, Ү|U, Ұ|U, Ф|F, Х|H, Ҳ|H, Һ|H, Ц|TS, Ҵ|TS, Ч|CH, Ӵ|CH, Ҷ|CH, Ӌ|CH, Ҹ|CH, Џ|DZ, Ш|SH, Щ|SHT, Ъ|A, Ы|Y, Ӹ|Y, Ь|Y, Ҍ|Y, Э|E, Ӭ|E, Ю|YU, Я|YA, а|a, ӑ|a, ӓ|a, ә|e, ӛ|e, ӕ|e, б|b, в|v, г|g, ґ|g, ѓ|g, ғ|g, ӷ|g, y|y, д|d, е|e, ѐ|e, ё|yo, ӗ|e, ҽ|e, ҿ|e, є|ye, ж|zh, ӂ|dzh, җ|zh, ӝ|dzh, з|z, ҙ|z, ӟ|dz, ӡ|dz, ѕ|dz, и|i, ѝ|i, ӥ|i, ӣ|i, і|i, ї|ji, Ӏ|i, й|y, ҋ|y, ј|j, к|k, қ|q, ҟ|q, ҡ|k, ӄ|q, ҝ|k, л|l, ӆ|l, љ|l, м|m, ӎ|m, н|n, ӊ|n, ң|n, ӈ|n, ҥ|n, њ|n, о|o, ӧ|o, ө|o, ӫ|o, ҩ|o, п|p, ҧ|pf, р|p, ҏ|p, с|s, ҫ|s, т|t, ҭ|th, ћ|t, ќ|k, у|u, ў|u, ӳ|u, ӱ|u, ӯ|u, ү|u, ұ|u, ф|f, х|h, ҳ|h, һ|h, ц|ts, ҵ|ts, ч|ch, ӵ|ch, ҷ|ch, ӌ|ch, ҹ|ch, џ|dz, ш|sh, щ|sht, ъ|a, ы|y, ӹ|y, ь|y, ҍ|y, э|e, ӭ|e, ю|yu, я|ya
[ocmSef] => 0
[ocmSefLabelCat] => content
[ocmSefLabelTag] => tag
[ocmSefLabelUser] => author
[ocmSefLabelSearch] => search
[ocmSefLabelDate] => date
[ocmSefLabelItem] => 0
[ocmSefLabelItemCustomPrefix] =>
[ocmSefInsertItemId] => 1
[ocmSefItemIdTitleAliasSep] => dash
[ocmSefUseItemTitleAlias] => 1
[ocmSefInsertCatId] => 1
[ocmSefCatIdTitleAliasSep] => dash
[ocmSefUseCatTitleAlias] => 1
[show_page_heading] => 0
[categories] => Array
(
[0] => 262
)
[exclude_from_group_by_subcategories] => 0
[menu-anchor_css] => nav__link
[menu_text] => 1
[menu_show] => 1
[menu-meta_description] => Najnovija događanja i savjeti iz svijeta showbiznisa.
[menu-meta_keywords] => vijesti, zanimljivosti, savjeti, showbiz, trend, društvena mreža, život, zdravlje, moda, ljepota, putovanja, tehnologija, gastro, dom, obitelj, karijera, viral
[secure] => 0
[obituaries_portal] => 0
[page_title] => Showbiz
[page_description] => SiteMeta Description
[page_rights] =>
[robots] =>
[inheritFrom] => 0
[num_leading_items] => 2
[num_leading_columns] => 1
[leadingImgSize] => Large
[num_primary_items] => 4
[num_primary_columns] => 2
[primaryImgSize] => Medium
[num_secondary_items] => 4
[num_secondary_columns] => 1
[secondaryImgSize] => Small
[num_links] => 4
[num_links_columns] => 1
[linksImgSize] => XSmall
[catCatalogMode] => 0
[catFeaturedItems] => 1
[catOrdering] => publishUp
[catPagination] => 2
[catPaginationResults] => 1
[catTitle] => 1
[catTitleItemCounter] => 1
[catDescription] => 1
[catImage] => 1
[catFeedLink] => 0
[catFeedIcon] => 0
[subCategories] => 1
[subCatColumns] => 2
[subCatTitle] => 1
[subCatTitleItemCounter] => 1
[subCatDescription] => 1
[subCatImage] => 1
[catItemTitle] => 1
[catItemTitleLinked] => 1
[catItemFeaturedNotice] => 0
[catItemAuthor] => 1
[catItemDateCreated] => 1
[catItemRating] => 0
[catItemImage] => 1
[catItemIntroText] => 1
[catItemExtraFields] => 0
[catItemHits] => 0
[catItemCategory] => 1
[catItemTags] => 1
[catItemAttachments] => 0
[catItemAttachmentsCounter] => 0
[catItemVideo] => 0
[catItemVideoAutoPlay] => 0
[catItemImageGallery] => 0
[catItemDateModified] => 0
[catItemReadMore] => 1
[catItemCommentsAnchor] => 1
[catItemOCMPlugins] => 1
[itemDateCreated] => 1
[itemTitle] => 1
[itemFeaturedNotice] => 1
[itemAuthor] => 1
[itemFontResizer] => 1
[itemPrintButton] => 0
[itemEmailButton] => 1
[itemSocialButton] => 1
[itemVideoAnchor] => 1
[itemImageGalleryAnchor] => 1
[itemCommentsAnchor] => 1
[itemRating] => 0
[itemImage] => 1
[itemImgSize] => Large
[itemImageMainCaption] => 1
[itemImageMainCredits] => 1
[itemIntroText] => 0
[itemFullText] => 1
[itemExtraFields] => 0
[itemDateModified] => 1
[itemHits] => 0
[itemCategory] => 0
[itemTags] => 1
[itemAttachments] => 1
[itemAttachmentsCounter] => 1
[itemVideo] => 1
[itemVideoAutoPlay] => 0
[itemVideoCaption] => 1
[itemVideoCredits] => 1
[itemImageGallery] => 0
[itemNavigation] => 0
[itemComments] => 1
[itemTwitterButton] => 1
[itemFacebookButton] => 1
[itemGooglePlusOneButton] => 1
[itemAuthorBlock] => 0
[itemAuthorImage] => 0
[itemAuthorDescription] => 0
[itemAuthorURL] => 0
[itemAuthorEmail] => 0
[itemAuthorLatest] => 0
[itemAuthorLatestLimit] => 5
[itemRelated] => 0
[itemRelatedLimit] => 5
[itemRelatedTitle] => 1
[itemRelatedCategory] => 0
[itemRelatedImageSize] => 0
[itemRelatedIntrotext] => 1
[itemRelatedFulltext] => 0
[itemRelatedAuthor] => 0
[itemRelatedMedia] => 0
[itemRelatedImageGallery] => 0
[itemOCMPlugins] => 1
[recaptcha] =>
)
[initialized:protected] => 1
[separator] => .
)
[metadesc] =>
[metadata] => robots=
author=
title=Damir Kedžo otvoreno o graničnom poremećaju osobnosti i odlasku na psihijatriju: ‘Htio sam ljudima reći da se bojim‘
[metakey] => Damir Kedžo, granični poremećaj ličnosti, osobnost, psihijatrija
[plugins] => {"incptvocmimagegalleryIGParameters":"default","incptvocmimagegalleryocmIGposition":"OcmAfterDisplayContent","incptvocmimagegalleryocmIGtheme":"CameraSlideshow","incptvocmimagegalleryImages":["\/images\/slike\/2023\/04\/10\/24267385.jpg","\/images\/slike\/2023\/04\/10\/24267386.jpg","\/images\/slike\/2023\/04\/10\/23983238.jpg"],"incptvocmimagegalleryImageTitles":["Pavle Kaplanec\/","Pavle Kaplanec\/","Ana\u00a0Bolobicchio\/"],"incptvocmimagegalleryImageDescriptions":["","",""],"incptvocmimagegalleryImageFocus":["50:50","50:50","50:50"],"incptvocmimagegalleryImageDimensions":[{"size0":"1920x1281","hd_24267385_1920.jpg":"1920x1080","k_24267385_1280.jpg":"1280x1280","k_24267385_1024.jpg":"1024x1024","k_24267385_640.jpg":"640x640","k_24267385_480.jpg":"480x480","k_24267385_340.jpg":"340x340","k_24267385_220.jpg":"220x220","o_24267385_1280.jpg":"1280x854","o_24267385_1024.jpg":"1024x683","o_24267385_640.jpg":"640x427","o_24267385_480.jpg":"480x320","o_24267385_340.jpg":"340x226","o_24267385_220.jpg":"220x146","h_24267385_1280.jpg":"1280x854","h_24267385_1024.jpg":"1024x683","h_24267385_640.jpg":"640x427","h_24267385_480.jpg":"480x320","h_24267385_340.jpg":"340x227","h_24267385_220.jpg":"220x147","pp_24267385_1280.jpg":"1280x1628","pp_24267385_1024.jpg":"1024x1303","pp_24267385_640.jpg":"640x814","pp_24267385_480.jpg":"480x611","pp_24267385_340.jpg":"340x432","pp_24267385_220.jpg":"220x280"},{"size0":"1920x1281","hd_24267386_1920.jpg":"1920x1080","k_24267386_1280.jpg":"1280x1280","k_24267386_1024.jpg":"1024x1024","k_24267386_640.jpg":"640x640","k_24267386_480.jpg":"480x480","k_24267386_340.jpg":"340x340","k_24267386_220.jpg":"220x220","o_24267386_1280.jpg":"1280x854","o_24267386_1024.jpg":"1024x683","o_24267386_640.jpg":"640x427","o_24267386_480.jpg":"480x320","o_24267386_340.jpg":"340x226","o_24267386_220.jpg":"220x146","h_24267386_1280.jpg":"1280x854","h_24267386_1024.jpg":"1024x683","h_24267386_640.jpg":"640x427","h_24267386_480.jpg":"480x320","h_24267386_340.jpg":"340x227","h_24267386_220.jpg":"220x147","pp_24267386_1280.jpg":"1280x1628","pp_24267386_1024.jpg":"1024x1303","pp_24267386_640.jpg":"640x814","pp_24267386_480.jpg":"480x611","pp_24267386_340.jpg":"340x432","pp_24267386_220.jpg":"220x280"},{"size0":"1920x2880","hd_23983238_1920.jpg":"1920x1080","k_23983238_1280.jpg":"1280x1280","k_23983238_1024.jpg":"1024x1024","k_23983238_640.jpg":"640x640","k_23983238_480.jpg":"480x480","k_23983238_340.jpg":"340x340","k_23983238_220.jpg":"220x220","o_23983238_1280.jpg":"1280x1920","o_23983238_1024.jpg":"1024x1536","o_23983238_640.jpg":"640x960","o_23983238_480.jpg":"480x720","o_23983238_340.jpg":"340x510","o_23983238_220.jpg":"220x330","h_23983238_1280.jpg":"1280x854","h_23983238_1024.jpg":"1024x683","h_23983238_640.jpg":"640x427","h_23983238_480.jpg":"480x320","h_23983238_340.jpg":"340x227","h_23983238_220.jpg":"220x147","pp_23983238_1280.jpg":"1280x1628","pp_23983238_1024.jpg":"1024x1303","pp_23983238_640.jpg":"640x814","pp_23983238_480.jpg":"480x611","pp_23983238_340.jpg":"340x432","pp_23983238_220.jpg":"220x280"}]}
[language] => *
[multi_author] => 0
[type_id] => 100
[category] => TableOCMCategory Object
(
[id] => 262
[name] => Showbiz
[alias] => showbiz
[description] =>
[parent] => 477
[extraFieldsGroup] => 9
[published] => 1
[image] =>
[access] => 1
[ordering] => 1
[params] => {"inheritFrom":"0","catMetaDesc":"","catMetaKey":"","catMetaRobots":"","catMetaAuthor":"","theme":"","num_leading_items":"2","num_leading_columns":"1","leadingImgSize":"Large","num_primary_items":"4","num_primary_columns":"2","primaryImgSize":"Medium","num_secondary_items":"4","num_secondary_columns":"1","secondaryImgSize":"Small","num_links":"4","num_links_columns":"1","linksImgSize":"XSmall","catCatalogMode":"0","catFeaturedItems":"1","catOrdering":"publishUp","catPagination":"2","catPaginationResults":"1","catTitle":"1","catTitleItemCounter":"1","catDescription":"1","catImage":"1","catFeedLink":"0","catFeedIcon":"0","subCategories":"1","subCatColumns":"2","subCatOrdering":"","subCatTitle":"1","subCatTitleItemCounter":"1","subCatDescription":"1","subCatImage":"1","itemImageXS":"","itemImageS":"","itemImageM":"","itemImageL":"","itemImageXL":"","catItemTitle":"1","catItemTitleLinked":"1","catItemFeaturedNotice":"0","catItemAuthor":"1","catItemDateCreated":"1","catItemRating":"0","catItemImage":"1","catItemIntroText":"1","catItemIntroTextWordLimit":"","catItemExtraFields":"0","catItemHits":"0","catItemCategory":"1","catItemTags":"1","catItemAttachments":"0","catItemAttachmentsCounter":"0","catItemVideo":"0","catItemVideoWidth":"","catItemVideoHeight":"","catItemAudioWidth":"","catItemAudioHeight":"","catItemVideoAutoPlay":"0","catItemImageGallery":"0","catItemImageGalleryWidth":"","catItemImageGalleryHeight":"","catItemDateModified":"0","catItemReadMore":"1","catItemCommentsAnchor":"1","catItemOCMPlugins":"1","itemDateCreated":"1","itemTitle":"1","itemFeaturedNotice":"1","itemAuthor":"1","itemFontResizer":"1","itemPrintButton":"0","itemEmailButton":"1","itemSocialButton":"1","itemVideoAnchor":"1","itemImageGalleryAnchor":"1","itemCommentsAnchor":"1","itemRating":"0","itemImage":"1","itemImgSize":"Large","itemImageMainCaption":"1","itemImageMainCredits":"1","itemIntroText":"0","itemFullText":"1","itemExtraFields":"0","itemDateModified":"1","itemHits":"0","itemCategory":"0","itemTags":"1","itemAttachments":"1","itemAttachmentsCounter":"1","itemVideo":"1","itemVideoWidth":"","itemVideoHeight":"","itemAudioWidth":"","itemAudioHeight":"","itemVideoAutoPlay":"0","itemVideoCaption":"1","itemVideoCredits":"1","itemImageGallery":"0","itemImageGalleryWidth":"","itemImageGalleryHeight":"","itemNavigation":"0","itemComments":"1","itemTwitterButton":"1","itemFacebookButton":"1","itemGooglePlusOneButton":"1","itemAuthorBlock":"0","itemAuthorImage":"0","itemAuthorDescription":"0","itemAuthorURL":"0","itemAuthorEmail":"0","itemAuthorLatest":"0","itemAuthorLatestLimit":"5","itemRelated":"0","itemRelatedLimit":"5","itemRelatedTitle":"1","itemRelatedCategory":"0","itemRelatedImageSize":"0","itemRelatedIntrotext":"1","itemRelatedFulltext":"0","itemRelatedAuthor":"0","itemRelatedMedia":"0","itemRelatedImageGallery":"0","itemOCMPlugins":"1"}
[trash] => 0
[plugins] => {"customparams_created":"2019-11-04 19:44:34","customparams_modified":"2019-11-04 19:44:34","customparams_videobg":"","customparams_countdown_module":"","customparams_search_template":""}
[language] => *
[container] => 0
[container_name] =>
[_tbl:protected] => #__ocm_categories
[_tbl_key:protected] => id
[_tbl_keys:protected] => Array
(
[0] => id
)
[_db:protected] => JDatabaseDriverMysqli_Exabyte Object
(
[name] => mysqli
[serverType] => mysql
[connection:protected] => mysqli Object
(
[affected_rows] => 38
[client_info] => mysqlnd 5.0.12-dev - 20150407 - $Id: 7cc7cc96e675f6d72e5cf0f267f48e167c2abb23 $
[client_version] => 50012
[connect_errno] => 0
[connect_error] =>
[errno] => 0
[error] =>
[error_list] => Array
(
)
[field_count] => 3
[host_info] => 127.0.0.1 via TCP/IP
[info] =>
[insert_id] => 0
[server_info] => 5.5.30
[server_version] => 50530
[stat] => Uptime: 4121601 Threads: 3 Questions: 124070595 Slow queries: 54005
[sqlstate] => 00000
[protocol_version] => 10
[thread_id] => 3769073
[warning_count] => 0
)
[nameQuote:protected] => `
[nullDate:protected] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00
[_database:JDatabaseDriver:private] => sdproductiondb
[count:protected] => 32
[cursor:protected] =>
[debug:protected] =>
[limit:protected] => 0
[log:protected] => Array
(
)
[timings:protected] => Array
(
)
[callStacks:protected] => Array
(
)
[offset:protected] => 0
[options:protected] => Array
(
[driver] => mysqli_exabyte
[host] => 127.0.0.1
[user] => proxy_user_front04
[password] => b3hX5DrKwjx6
[database] => sdproductiondb
[prefix] => sk_
[select] => 1
[port] => 6033
[socket] =>
)
[sql:protected] => SELECT id, value, type FROM #__ocm_extra_fields ef WHERE ef.published = 1
[tablePrefix:protected] => sk_
[utf:protected] => 1
[utf8mb4:protected] => 1
[errorNum:protected] => 0
[errorMsg:protected] =>
[transactionDepth:protected] => 0
[disconnectHandlers:protected] => Array
(
)
[ocmConfig] => Array
(
)
)
[_trackAssets:protected] =>
[_rules:protected] =>
[_locked:protected] =>
[_autoincrement:protected] => 1
[_observers:protected] => JObserverUpdater Object
(
[aliases:protected] => Array
(
)
[observers:protected] => Array
(
)
[doCallObservers:protected] => 1
)
[_columnAlias:protected] => Array
(
)
[_jsonEncode:protected] => Array
(
)
[_errors:protected] => Array
(
)
[year_lookup] => 0
[link] => /scena/showbiz
)
[additional_categories] => Array
(
[0] => stdClass Object
(
[id] => 262
[name] => Showbiz
[alias] => showbiz
[parent] => 477
[published] => 1
[trash] => 0
[link] => /scena/showbiz
)
)
[link] => /scena/showbiz/damir-kedzo-otvoreno-o-granicnom-poremecaju-osobnosti-i-odlasku-na-psihijatriju-htio-sam-ljudima-reci-da-se-bojim-1280135
[printLink] => /scena/showbiz/damir-kedzo-otvoreno-o-granicnom-poremecaju-osobnosti-i-odlasku-na-psihijatriju-htio-sam-ljudima-reci-da-se-bojim-1280135?tmpl=component&print=1
[tags] => Array
(
[0] => stdClass Object
(
[id] => 361436
[name] => damir kedžo
[published] => 1
[section] =>
[subsection] =>
[weight] =>
[created] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00
[main_article_id] => 0
[alias] => damir-kedzo
[link] => /tag/damir-kedzo
)
[1] => stdClass Object
(
[id] => 712215
[name] => granični poremećaj ličnosti
[published] => 1
[section] =>
[subsection] =>
[weight] =>
[created] => 2023-04-10 12:45:30
[main_article_id] => 0
[alias] => granicni-poremecaj-licnosti
[link] => /tag/granicni-poremecaj-licnosti
)
[2] => stdClass Object
(
[id] => 274797
[name] => osobnost
[published] => 1
[section] =>
[subsection] =>
[weight] =>
[created] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00
[main_article_id] => 0
[alias] => osobnost
[link] => /tag/osobnost
)
[3] => stdClass Object
(
[id] => 600550
[name] => psihijatrija
[published] => 1
[section] =>
[subsection] =>
[weight] =>
[created] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00
[main_article_id] => 0
[alias] => psihijatrija
[link] => /tag/psihijatrija
)
)
[imageXSmall] =>
[imageSmall] =>
[imageMedium] =>
[imageLarge] =>
[imageXLarge] =>
[attachments] => Array
(
)
[cleanTitle] => Damir Kedžo otvoreno o graničnom poremećaju osobnosti i odlasku na psihijatriju: ‘Htio sam ljudima reći da se bojim‘
[num_of_authors] => 0
[author] => Joomla\CMS\User\User Object
(
[isRoot:protected] =>
[id] => 3271
[name] => Ivana Kapetanović
[username] => ivana.kapetanovic@slobodnadalmacija.hr
[email] => ivana.kapetanovic@slobodnadalmacija.hr
[password] => $2y$10$OmTs/imYojk0U2lnJXM43uHwmFTXw.yH92JTXlWUAnY.g5OmdI/9S
[password_clear] =>
[block] => 0
[sendEmail] => 0
[registerDate] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00
[lastvisitDate] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00
[activation] =>
[params] => {"admin_style":"","admin_language":"","language":"","editor":"","timezone":""}
[groups] => Array
(
[3] => 3
)
[guest] => 0
[lastResetTime] => 0000-00-00 00:00:00
[resetCount] => 0
[requireReset] => 0
[_params:protected] => Joomla\Registry\Registry Object
(
[data:protected] => stdClass Object
(
[admin_style] =>
[admin_language] =>
[language] =>
[editor] =>
[timezone] =>
)
[initialized:protected] => 1
[separator] => .
)
[_authGroups:protected] =>
[_authLevels:protected] =>
[_authActions:protected] =>
[_errorMsg:protected] =>
[userHelper:protected] => Joomla\CMS\User\UserWrapper Object
(
)
[_errors:protected] => Array
(
)
[otpKey] =>
[otep] =>
[link] => /autor/ivana-kapetanovic-3271
[profile] => stdClass Object
(
[id] => 1784
[gender] => m
[description] =>
[image] =>
[url] =>
[group] => 0
[plugins] => {"customparams_author_school":"","customparams_author_title":"","customparams_author_title_categoryid":"28","customparams_fb_link":"","customparams_tw_link":"","customparams_layout":""}
)
[avatar] => https://secure.gravatar.com/avatar/ea6190ae66f23754bb03378e261af015?s=100&default=https%3A%2F%2Fslobodnadalmacija.hr%2Fcomponents%2Fcom_ocm%2Fimages%2Fplaceholder%2Fuser.png
)
[numOfComments] => 0
[mainImage] => https://static.slobodnadalmacija.hr/images/slike/2023/04/10/24267385.jpg
[galleryCount] => 3
[hasImage] => 1
[mainImageAuthor] => Pavle Kaplanec/
[mainImageDesc] =>
[popup_gallery] => Array
(
[0] => stdClass Object
(
[src] => https://static.slobodnadalmacija.hr/images/slike/2023/04/10/24267385.jpg
[title] =>
)
[1] => stdClass Object
(
[src] => https://static.slobodnadalmacija.hr/images/slike/2023/04/10/24267386.jpg
[title] =>
)
[2] => stdClass Object
(
[src] => https://static.slobodnadalmacija.hr/images/slike/2023/04/10/23983238.jpg
[title] =>
)
)
[bgPosition] =>
[text] => {OCMSplitter}
Iza pjevača Damira Kedže teška je bitka s graničnim poremećajem osobnosti. Za IN magazin hrabro je priznao kako se nije mogao nositi s anksioznošću i opsesivnim mislima, pa je pomoć potražio na psihijatrijskom odjelu riječke bolnice, prenosi Jutarnji list .
- Htio sam ljudima reći, ljudi ful se bojim, ful sam nervozan, međutim to sam liječio na različite načine, ili bih popio čašu, dvije vina pa išao pjevati, a mislim da to nije način, jer kad kreneš s čašom, dvije kroz deset godina postane boca, dvije, tri, četiri, a ja nisam tip osobe koja želi živjeti destruktivan život, priznao je Kedžo.
---
---
‘U početku su mi od velike pomoći bili lijekovi koje mi je prepisala psihijatrica, ali oni su samo gips za slomljenu nogu. Nakon nekog vremena ta noga mora uz vježbu odbaciti štaku, pa sam i ja uz lijekove krenuo na terapiju.
Ali u toj akutnoj fazi, bez lijekova ne bih mogao niti spavati, moje misli su bile kao Ferrari bez kočnica koji juri prema zidu. Psihoterapija je bio pravi i veliki korak naprijed u razumijevanju svega što se događa. Trideset pet godina sam živio u jednom programu i načinu razmišljanja i okrenuti to u nešto novo, drugačije ali bolje za mene, nije niti malo lagan posao.
Prolazeći kroz sve o čemu govorim, ne bojim se osude. Želim o svemu javno govoriti, jer ako se netko u ovome prepozna a trenutno svoj nemir pokušava umiriti alkoholom ili drogom, možda čuje moje iskustvo, možda potraži stručnu pomoć i počne živjeti kvalitetniji život. Ja ću biti zadovoljan. A što će netko zlonamjeran misliti, nije mi važno. Ti su dani, nadam se,zauvijek iza mene.
---
---
Zanimljivo je, da su se meni uvijek sviđale neke javne osobe koje pate od ovog poremećaja. U traženju rješenja za sebe otkrio sam da je od graničnog poremećaja ličnosti patila i Amy Winehouse, Kurt Cobain,Robbie Williams , princeza Diana , Marilyn Monroe . To mi je pomoglo, jer sam si mislio ako R. Williams može s tim izaći na kraj, valjda ću i ja uspjeti. Zato mislim da o tome treba govoriti, a ako će netko reći da sam lud, neka im bude. Ja na to putovanje, gledam samo pozitivno.
Važna mi je podrška moje obitelji, roditelja i sestre. Majka je od osobe koja nije razumjela niti prihvaćala ovaj problem, sada moj najveći saveznik. Još u samim počecima mnogima oko mene je bilo jasno da se nešto događa, ali nitko nije znao kako mi pomoći, a najmanje ja sam. Bila je to transformacija za mene ali i cijelu obitelj.
Ne bojim se zato budućnosti, jer napokon imam alate kako ovladati preplavljujućim mislima i osjećajima. Svi imamo bolje i lošije dane, a ja se sada trudim da oni loši budu kratki i rješivi, da budu iznimka a ne pravilo.
Počinjem živjeti svoje najbolje dane, jer nakon dvadeset godina mržnje prema sebi došao sam do mjesta da se učim voljeti sebe, a mislio sam do to mjesto ne postoji.‘, ispričao je Kedžo za Gloriu , a cijeli razgovor možete pogledati u videu.
---
VIDEO
---
[event] => stdClass Object
(
[BeforeDisplay] =>
[AfterDisplay] =>
[AfterDisplayTitle] =>
[BeforeDisplayContent] =>
[AfterDisplayContent] =>
[OCMBeforeDisplay] =>
[OCMAfterDisplay] =>
[OCMAfterDisplayTitle] =>
[OCMBeforeDisplayContent] =>
[OCMAfterDisplayContent] =>
[OCMUserDisplay] =>
[OCMCommentsCounter] =>
[OCMCommentsBlock] =>
)
[jcfields] => Array
(
)
[image] =>
[imageWidth] => 600
[comments] => Array
(
)
[absoluteURL] => https://slobodnadalmacija.hr/scena/showbiz/damir-kedzo-otvoreno-o-granicnom-poremecaju-osobnosti-i-odlasku-na-psihijatriju-htio-sam-ljudima-reci-da-se-bojim-1280135
[emailLink] => /component/mailto/?tmpl=component&template=site&link=158ae173d8eba0c79254e76124510329976bc0ef
[twitterURL] => http://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=Damir+Ked%C5%BEo+otvoreno+o+grani%C4%8Dnom+poreme%C4%87aju+osobnosti+i+odlasku+na+psihijatriju%3A+%E2%80%98Htio+sam+ljudima+re%C4%87i+da+se+bojim%E2%80%98&url=https%3A%2F%2Fslobodnadalmacija.hr%2Fscena%2Fshowbiz%2Fdamir-kedzo-otvoreno-o-granicnom-poremecaju-osobnosti-i-odlasku-na-psihijatriju-htio-sam-ljudima-reci-da-se-bojim-1280135
[socialLink] => https%3A%2F%2Fslobodnadalmacija.hr%2Fscena%2Fshowbiz%2Fdamir-kedzo-otvoreno-o-granicnom-poremecaju-osobnosti-i-odlasku-na-psihijatriju-htio-sam-ljudima-reci-da-se-bojim-1280135
)
[{"id":"1","value":""},{"id":"2","value":"TE\u0160KA BITKA"},{"id":"10","value":""},{"id":"97","value":""},{"id":"65","value":""},{"id":"63","value":"2"},{"id":"80","value":""},{"id":"81","value":""},{"id":"82","value":""},{"id":"83","value":""},{"id":"84","value":""},{"id":"85","value":""},{"id":"86","value":""},{"id":"88","value":""},{"id":"95","value":"0"},{"id":"105","value":""},{"id":"106","value":""},{"id":"107","value":""},{"id":"112","value":"2900"},{"id":"78","value":"2"},{"id":"87","value":"2"},{"id":"61","value":"1"},{"id":"62","value":"1"},{"id":"64","value":"1"},{"id":"67","value":"1"},{"id":"68","value":"2"},{"id":"69","value":"1"},{"id":"70","value":"1"},{"id":"71","value":"1"},{"id":"73","value":"1"},{"id":"74","value":"1"},{"id":"77","value":"1"},{"id":"79","value":"1"},{"id":"91","value":"1"},{"id":"92","value":"1"},{"id":"93","value":"1"},{"id":"94","value":"1"},{"id":"96","value":"1"},{"id":"98","value":"1"}]
11. svibanj 2024 21:21
